Lesson 9 - Merging Required I live out in the country so I drive a lot. It takes fifteen minutes to get to the nearest grocery store and thirty minutes to get to any kind of shopping center. I wouldn’t want to live anywhere else, but this choice means I spend a lot of time driving. When my children were younger, the drive times were perfect for little chats to see how they were doing. I learned that they opened up in ways they didn’t when we were home and distracted. I had a captive audience! Now that my children are grown, I have quiet time in the car which gives me time to think and ponder. I have found analogies that I can use to strengthen my relationships. Here is an example: When I started driving as a teen, I was scared to do my assigned freeway drive. I knew I would need to speed up on the on-ramp and then merge with fast-moving traffic. With my instructor’s help, I was able to accomplish the drive. After practicing, merging with onco...